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About MentorBoom

It's been the blessing of my life to receive the teaching and friendship of some extraordinary people. I want that wisdom to outlive me by sharing it with others. MentorBoom, is intended to do that and to help us all find ways to live more satisfying and fulfilling lives.

Self-Confidence versus Self-Questioning

“In order to do this work you need two things in about equal measure: self-confidence and self-questioning.”  John, a psychologist and business consultant In the mid-90’s I was working with a small group of fellow family business consultants on a … Continue reading

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The Language of Ignorance

Recently in a debate, Jon Huntsman spoke a phrase in Chinese; he has subsequently been skewered by some in the media for this unforgiveable sin. A clip of Mitt Romney shows him saying what his name is in French, “Je … Continue reading

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A Lifetime of Change

                                                  Things do not change; we change. Henry David Thoreau Those of us born in the Boomer generation have seen more change in a decade than our ancestors did in a long life.  The years of our generation encompass the … Continue reading

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A Resurrection Story

For the past 3 years I’ve been privy to and part of a resurrection story.  War is hell and we have many, many wounded veterans to show for it.  We see them on street corners begging.  We hear about the wards … Continue reading

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The Meaning of Any Communication. . .

Setting: 23rd floor apartment, Battery Park City, NYC The View: The Hudson River, Verrazano Narrows Bridge and the Statue of Liberty This beautiful vista was the backdrop for a series of meetings I attended back in the late ’90’s and until … Continue reading

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Three Filters

I look at everything that comes into my life through the three filters of health, love relationships and work.                                                                                                                                                                       William Webb Many years ago when I was beginning to feel my way into this new work I do, I … Continue reading

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The Mystery of the Baalbek Stones

Place: Baalbek, The Beka’a Valley, Lebanon, 50 miles northeast of Beirut Time: 5,000-10,000 years ago At a time when the world was emerging from a prolonged ice age and paleolithic hunter/gatherers with wooden, bone and stone tools roamed the earth, the foundation stones for the … Continue reading

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The Unholy Trinity

                              “Sin, guilt and fear, the unholy trinity” Kenneth Wapnick It was about 20 years ago when I heard this idea from Dr. Wapnick.  He said that we are all conditioned by society, the church, and even by our families, … Continue reading

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Gossip

                           Talking about someone not present is gossip. Buddhist wisdom You see all sorts at the Y where I go swim everyday.  Every skin color, body type and temperament are on full (excuse the pun) display in the locker room.  … Continue reading

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Ask, Expect, Believe, Receive

                          “You’ve got to have something to look forward to.”  My father, often. The young mother and son were traversing the pedestrian crosswalk as I left the Y.  She had just picked him up at childcare after her workout and … Continue reading

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